While both "extend" and "lengthen" suggest making something longer, there's a subtle but important difference. "Lengthen" specifically refers to increasing the length of something, usually a physical object. "Extend" has a broader meaning; it can refer to increasing length, but also to continuing something in time or space, or to making something apply to a larger area or group.
Let's look at some examples:
Lengthen:
Extend:
Notice how "extend" can refer to time, scope, or influence, in addition to physical length. This is the key difference. If you're talking strictly about making something physically longer, use "lengthen." If you're talking about increasing duration, range, or application, "extend" is often the better choice.
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